But most of the effort is put in the former. To reduce flaws. But I believe leveraging your good qualities is the best way forward.
I have seen that when I am moving towards tasks that enhance and leverage my good skills, I become more confident, happy and jubilant!
Curbing a bad habit feels good but planting a new habit feels even better.
So what do you think? Which is better approach? What works for you? Killing the negatives or pruning the positives.